Our Case For Support

Our Case For Support

Karen’s Story

As a 41 year old single mother of five children living with Metastatic Breast Cancer, Karen had no way to provide for her children. Months away from dying and in constant need of medical treatments, the family of six lived in a 650 square foot one bedroom walk up. The children took the bedroom while Karen slept on an air mattress. Some weeks, Karen was unable to buy groceries because her food stamps were being delivered to the wrong address in her apartment complex. Her children relied on free breakfast and lunch at the inner city school they attended in New Haven, CT.

With no extended support system, no job and increased time spent in the hospital for disease progression, Karen’s family was in dire need! Infinite Strength was able to provide groceries, pay their rent and utilities and even purchase Christmas gifts for the children. Although Karen only lived a few months more, during that time, she was able to concentrate on her children and prepare them as best she could for the inevitable life-changing loss that was ahead.

Our Mission

Infinite Strength is a charitable organization driven by our mission to provide financial and emotional support to underserved single mothers with Metastatic Breast Cancer (Stage IV) in order for them to have a better quality of life. We provide hope to mother and child that they are not on this journey alone.

What is Metastatic Breast Cancer (MBC)?

What is Metastatic Breast Cancer (MBC)?

Metastatic Breast Cancer (also called stage IV) is breast cancer that has spread to another part of the body, most commonly the liver, brain, bones, or lungs. Once diagnosed with this disease, the average life span is 2-3 years.

30% of women diagnosed with early stage breast cancer will become metastatic in their lifetime. Black women are 40% more likely to get an MBC diagnosis. 31% of young women under the age of 50 will be diagnosed with MBC.

There is no cure for this disease; it is the only breast cancer that kills.

Infinite Potential

Infinite Strength provides monthly financial support for up to six months to underserved/underrepresented single mothers living with Metastatic Breast Cancer. Applications are reviewed on a case by case basis.

LIFE SUPPORT | MBC Panel Discussions

We know that the challenges women face while living with MBC are endless, so we assemble a team of experts quarterly for in-person (virtual option) panel discussions to tackle the topics that are not talked about enough. From raising kids while living with this disease to sexual health, to clinical trials and the different subtypes of MBC, we have you covered.

Refer to our Events page for dates.

  • This year in the United States 42,250 women will die of Metastatic Breast Cancer. That is an average of 116 people a day.

    BCRF

  • Not only is breast cancer more biologically aggressive in African American women, the disparity in breast cancer mortality also reflects social barriers that disproportionately affect Black Women via poverty, cultural and social injustice barriers across all disease phases: prevention, detection/incidence, treatment, post treatment/quality of life, survival/recurrence/mortality.

    NIH

  • In the U.S. today there are an estimated 200,000 women living with MBC.

    BCRF

  • The fatality Rate for women with MBC is 97-99%.

    Metavivor

  • Rates of Metastatic Breast Cancer (MBC) at diagnosis have disproportionately increased in younger women.

    ncbi.nlm.nih.gov

  • In 2021 researchers projected that the number of people with MBC will increase nearly fifty percent over the next ten years.

    UNC Chapel Hill

  • Women of all ages receive MBC diagnoses, but younger women under the age of 50, are more likely to receive an MBC diagnosis as their first diagnosis.

    breastcancer.org

  • Black women are 42% more likely to die of breast cancer.

    Breast Cancer Prevention Partners

  • Black Women under 35 get breast cancer at two times the rate of White Women and die at three times the rate.

    ACS

Single Mothers and Poverty

These families are considered food insecure, which means that a third of single moms are not sure where the next meal for them and their children is coming from. There is a good chance that their children go to bed with their empty stomachs grumbling. And just about one-ninth (11.7%) used food pantries. Datacenter Kidscount

Single mothers have to work MORE hours but still have HIGHER poverty rates. This is because 40% of single mothers work low-wage jobs. Also, in most cases, single moms don’t have access to paid leave. Single moms also have to spend AT LEAST one-third of their salary (if working) on housing.

This problem is probably the most significant financial burden for single moms. However, women with MBC are continually in need of medical treatments to manage pain and progression for as long as possible, so even if they are employed, many are unable to work. This means that because single moms live in poverty, they are MORE vulnerable to becoming homeless.

80% of single-parent families in the United States are headed by single moms and nearly a third live in poverty.

US Census Bureau

77.3% of African American moms are single moms. 70.5% of all African American working mothers are single moms, making them the primary, if not sole, economic providers for their families.

Economic Policy Institute

Dr. Eric Winer

“In the United States, if you are a 20 year old black woman, you have twice the chance of dying from breast cancer before you’re 50 compared to a 20 year old white woman. And I would argue that’s just unacceptable.

Dr. Eric Winer, ASCO President
Speaking at The Infinite Strength Annual Gala 2023

Lack of Health Insurance 

According to Pew Research Center…

  • Black Women experience emotional suppression and behavioral disengagement — “experienced increased levels of distress and poorer survival."

  • Black Women lack the space to talk about how their concerns went unheard by a medical profession that skews white and male.

  • Black Women fear sharing their diagnosis within their families and communities because they are often the family breadwinner.

Low income single moms have less than adequate health insurance, while 13.4% don’t have any health insurance.

Why Infinite Strength?

We are the only nonprofit in the country dedicated to underserved single mothers with Metastatic Breast Cancer, and the only one to offer monthly recurring financial support to these families. Our help is needed now more than ever, as the need is greater than ever! Our founder and President does not take a salary, nor do any of our board members. All staff are volunteer!

Give Families Life Support

Our goal is to provide this critical life support nationally to underserved single mothers living with MBC and their children. Here is how you can help:

Philanthropic Donation:

  • Multi-Year Pledge

  • One-Time Cash Gift Stocks

  • A Bequest in Your Will

Sponsorship Opportunities Available Including:

  • Naming Partnerships Across Marketing Collateral

  • Vendor Table Display At Our Events

  • Acknowledgment In Event Opening Remarks

  • Logo Placement On Event Signage

  • Logo Placement On Our Website Partner Page

  • Social Media Post Features

For more information, please contact roberta@infinitestrength.org

  • “How can I ever tell you how much your generous gift will help my daughter, Ellen, and my grandchildren. Ellen has been fighting this long battle against breast cancer for so long and has been in so much pain. You are wonderful!“

    Carole

  • “You have made all the difference for me and my two little girls! I don’t know how we can ever tell you how much we appreciate every little thing you do for us. I know when I need to talk or when something comes up and I just need help, I can come to you. To have your support means everything!”

    Erica

  • “There aren’t enough words to express what the assistance and support of Infinite Strength has meant to my daughter and I these last few months. The assistance has allowed us to pay other bills on time and have peace of mind. The ability to talk and interact with people with similar experiences has relieved a weight I had thought would never lessen. We are so grateful for your organization!”

    Michelle

  • “I have tears running down my face! Thank you from the bottom of my heart for your support of me and my son!”

    Carieann